Before you read any further in this piece you need to understand something. I have friends. GOOD friends who are shining examples of the best Christians on earth. Not because they are perfect, not because they sit around quoting bible scripture all day, not because they spend hours a day volunteering to help the poor and downtrodden, and not because they focus on showing non Christians the way. Because they have found a way to live their lives worshiping god in a way that enhances their lives. Some of them don't agree with my lifestyle, but they resolve that fact by believing that god will judge me and no one else should.
Many gay couples have recently gotten married, legally, This may seem like a huge win for equal and gay rights. Keep a couple things in mind, less than 50 years ago it was illegal for members of different ethnic backgrounds to marry, current events show us that there are still many powerful racist people in America who have found a way to voice their racism either personally or subversively. While polls show 60% of Americans approve of gay marriage. No state has passed an equal marriage law when put to a vote. Obama originally stated when running for office the first time that he believed marriage was between a man and a woman. I question his genuine beliefs. No matter what the supreme court says now. They are appointed positions and when the case comes up again things can always be reversed. Some courts have actually already upheld the ban. Rowe vs Wade is a prime example of why the fight for equal rights must never end. States, Senators, and Good Christians are continually looking for a way to take abortion, and women's rights away from them.
Sally Kern, Ted Cruz, Marco Rubio, Al Sharpton, Mike Huckabee, Mary Fallon, Sarah Palin, all have found a pulpit to pound when it comes to gay rights. I was very slow to come to the side of gay rights. I felt as a movement, and social body we were not mature enough to deserve them. In many aspects I still feel that way. Fact is legally there is enough legal documentation out there to file to protect gay couples rights. Many young gay people take for granted the vast volumes of shit the rest of us have gone through, and frankly they aren't tough enough to handle it anyway. I can remember standing in front of a gay bar in Lexington Kentucky in the early ninety's and somebody driving by and firing gun shots into the building. At the time nobody even called the police because they didn't want to deal with the conflict of calling the police to a gay bar. So a little bullying during high school, which we all have had to deal with, and some bullying on face book page doesn't really seem such a big deal to me. Have some balls boys, you have them don't you.
While there are plenty of Christians who don't oppose gay marriage rights, it does give the far right wing republicans and everyday bigots a pulpit to hide behind. It gives them the courage to voice their opinions standing behind the veil of religion when they don't have the courage to stand up and declare they are racist and bigots on their own accord. Hell I am an opinionated son of a bitch and I don't care what you think about it, at least I admit it. I plan to marry my partner this spring, not because the state of Arizona allows it legally. Not because the supreme court says that I have the right to. Because I believe in the commitment that I want to make to him. I want him to know the blind love that I have seen my father exhibit toward my mother for the last 50 plus years. I don't believe that we will have equal rights for gays until we can sit across the table at a romantic dinner and hold hands openly, or stand beside a river, or on a mountain, or a fountain and be moved and kiss openly in public without looks of disdain or disgust. I believe the fight is not anywhere near over and we need a stable, united voice to respectfully keep on fighting the good fight. The couples who have been fighting the battle in the courts, who have taken all the social and racial slurs, who have had to stand on the steps of the courts and walk past the protesters carrying viscous banners have earned and deserve for us to keep on fighting the good fight.
Wednesday, January 28, 2015
Tuesday, January 27, 2015
The Current Fairytale. or, drink some more kool aid stupid.
I have missed a few weeks. I had to travel and have gotten behind in life a little bit. I had the unfortunate privilege of getting to travel half way across the country last week. I am not an extravagant traveler when I am by myself. I like to take the boys and enjoy the trip and spend as little money as possible without inflicting any misery on myself. One of my habits is staying at off the beaten path motels. The kind you find on old route 66 or downtown in small towns. I like to spend money on real vacations or my hobbies or Dave. I have been lucky while training horses that for the last 30 years I have traveled all over this country. I am not one of those driving with blinders on kind of travelers, I an curious and pay attention to most everything around me. So for the last 30 odd years I have noticed how this country has changed. Following are some observations.
If you honestly believe that things are better nationwide now, than 20 years ago. Drink some more Kool aid. Small towns are struggling like never before. Some don't even have grocery stores in them anymore. Small quaint motels have closed up. Try and find a good small town cafe. Some towns don't have them anymore either. Sure gas may be at it's lowest in 10 years. While I was in Oklahoma I heard at least three companies announce layoffs because the price of oil had dropped so low. What is good for one part of the public, may be disastrous for some of the others. Roads in these small towns are frankly embarrassing. Their condition has gotten progressively worse over the last 30 years. There are empty Banks, car dealerships, gas stations, motels etc all across this country. Small business is shrinking at an alarming rate.
Black on black violence is at an all time high. It is a problem which is ignored by the government and the media alike. Why aren't blacks rioting about this. Why is Al Sharpton silent about this. I'll tell you why. As long as they continue to get a government check. They don't care how many blacks kill each other. It's all about taking responsibility for their own actions. Have you seen an episode of Jerry Springer. Unfortunately their lives are just like that. It's not my baby!!! Blacks also have this awesome way of turning on each other if one is successful and built a good life for themselves. They want to hang around for the free hand out and be part of the "posse", but ask them to be accountable for breaking the law and suddenly they call each other "uncle Tom's" or "just another porch nigger". I read an article calling Charles Barkley a "house nigger" when he questioned the actions of the rioters after the Michael Brown incident. I think that's rich. Charles Barkley, or any black professional athlete had dedicated his life to his sport. 68% will have filed for bankruptcy within 5 years after retirement because they have neglected their education so much while playing. That's not progress.
Hell our own governor Doug Ducey said during his campaign that he would not cut funding for education. When asked several times he always said no cuts to education. He does however want to take money from public education funding and offer it to charter schools. In his state of the state address he announced budget cuts to Arizona's Universities. Personally I think if you can't back up the platform that you've won your election on, then you need to be impeached. It's time we held our elected officials accountable for their actions.
Don't get me started on Democrats and Republicans. One wants to give it all away, and the other wants to take it all away. Neither party has a clue whats going on in the real world, they are only concerned with advancing their own agenda. The American people are going to suffer more and more if we don't find a way to get them under control.
One last thing I want to comment on. If things are so good. Why is the religious right fighting so hard against gay rights. I'll tell you why. because things aren't so good. History shows us that organized religion grows when times are tough. People look for outside support and turn to religion when their lives aren't going so well. Unfortunately organized religion is here to pick up that slack and that in itself is somewhat of a tragedy. There is very little joy in organized religion. It is all about judgement, oppression and one group of people oppressing another.
My next couple post may seem a little negative. Frankly its about time somebody started telling it like it is. In the next few I am going to discuss Obama care, Equal rights for gays, and the current job market. So hang on folks it's going to be a bumpy ride.
If you honestly believe that things are better nationwide now, than 20 years ago. Drink some more Kool aid. Small towns are struggling like never before. Some don't even have grocery stores in them anymore. Small quaint motels have closed up. Try and find a good small town cafe. Some towns don't have them anymore either. Sure gas may be at it's lowest in 10 years. While I was in Oklahoma I heard at least three companies announce layoffs because the price of oil had dropped so low. What is good for one part of the public, may be disastrous for some of the others. Roads in these small towns are frankly embarrassing. Their condition has gotten progressively worse over the last 30 years. There are empty Banks, car dealerships, gas stations, motels etc all across this country. Small business is shrinking at an alarming rate.
Black on black violence is at an all time high. It is a problem which is ignored by the government and the media alike. Why aren't blacks rioting about this. Why is Al Sharpton silent about this. I'll tell you why. As long as they continue to get a government check. They don't care how many blacks kill each other. It's all about taking responsibility for their own actions. Have you seen an episode of Jerry Springer. Unfortunately their lives are just like that. It's not my baby!!! Blacks also have this awesome way of turning on each other if one is successful and built a good life for themselves. They want to hang around for the free hand out and be part of the "posse", but ask them to be accountable for breaking the law and suddenly they call each other "uncle Tom's" or "just another porch nigger". I read an article calling Charles Barkley a "house nigger" when he questioned the actions of the rioters after the Michael Brown incident. I think that's rich. Charles Barkley, or any black professional athlete had dedicated his life to his sport. 68% will have filed for bankruptcy within 5 years after retirement because they have neglected their education so much while playing. That's not progress.
Hell our own governor Doug Ducey said during his campaign that he would not cut funding for education. When asked several times he always said no cuts to education. He does however want to take money from public education funding and offer it to charter schools. In his state of the state address he announced budget cuts to Arizona's Universities. Personally I think if you can't back up the platform that you've won your election on, then you need to be impeached. It's time we held our elected officials accountable for their actions.
Don't get me started on Democrats and Republicans. One wants to give it all away, and the other wants to take it all away. Neither party has a clue whats going on in the real world, they are only concerned with advancing their own agenda. The American people are going to suffer more and more if we don't find a way to get them under control.
One last thing I want to comment on. If things are so good. Why is the religious right fighting so hard against gay rights. I'll tell you why. because things aren't so good. History shows us that organized religion grows when times are tough. People look for outside support and turn to religion when their lives aren't going so well. Unfortunately organized religion is here to pick up that slack and that in itself is somewhat of a tragedy. There is very little joy in organized religion. It is all about judgement, oppression and one group of people oppressing another.
My next couple post may seem a little negative. Frankly its about time somebody started telling it like it is. In the next few I am going to discuss Obama care, Equal rights for gays, and the current job market. So hang on folks it's going to be a bumpy ride.
Friday, January 16, 2015
I am seeing more and more of these around town, and frankly if they are homeless veterans, why the hell are they. I have a great idea. These bases that we've closed over the years and are sitting empty or we have sold off to private parties. Sometimes the are sold off, more often than not they are sitting empty and completely unused. Even at bases that are open the military has shrunk so much that housing is empty at bases all over the country. Could somebody please explain to me why these homes are not being used to house homeless vets. Why aren't we using them re-train vets when they return. Can you imagine how efficient that the wounded warrior programs would be if the participants were all housed together. Counseling, vocational training, adequate medical facilities, athletic and rehabilitation facilities. Don't tell me that we keep some of them open to house Hurricane refugees because the last I heard from the news, that did not happen at all. All you have to do is drive through parts of Houston and Dallas and Oklahoma City and you can see exactly where the Hurricane Katrina victims were left.
I'd like to know just exactly what the government excuses are for this. I realize that nobody in the federal government really gives a shit. Potus doesn't even have the time to visit a VA hospital. Let alone write some legislation and invent some programs that would really help our veterans.
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
The AQHA, the non working business model.
Some of you will find this an interesting observation, and my non horsey friends will probably be bored by it. It is something though that is important for anyone or entity that tries to run a business. This is also going to be a small Commentary about Rita Crundwell.
Over the last 5 years the AQHA has lost approximately 16 million dollars in revenue. I predicted that the average individual who didn't know Rita Crundwell had no idea how her arrest and prosecution was going to affect the horse industry. While I don't in any way mean to say that she is the reason for the loss, however the circumstances of her arrest and lifestyle and influence in the AQHA is a prime example of what is wrong with the system.
You see I have actually know Rita for a long time. I was originally introduced to her by a good friend and Customer Jane Turner. The first year that I hauled Jane to the congress she and Rita shared a motel room. This was before Rita and Jim were so involved and they were cutting expenses and they didn't get a rental car so they drove my truck while we were there and shared a room. I remember Jane questioning Rita at the time about her relationship and where the money was coming from but I don't remember what the outcome of the conversation was. It was in the early stages of Rita showing and she was just starting to spend the big bucks. She was just starting to sponsor events and buy some real quality stock.
Most people don't have any idea how much it costs to haul world class quarter horses down the road. Let alone have them in training. The maintenance and the upkeep. Paying the trainer, the entries etc. Not to mention the AQHA and its local, state affiliated could not exist one second longer if it was not for it's vast amount of benefactors. It's very much like the alumni association silently funding a college powerhouse football program. Nobody actually knows how much is "donated" but they all enjoy the benefits from it. The horse industry is one of the finest examples of the haves and have nots that you will ever see. One thing that nobody sees or understands is how much the Haves are squeezed to help keep the industry up and running. For every dollar that Rita Spent. I guarantee she donated the equal amount. Every local association where she had an outside horse in training and that number was right about 1000, was the benefactor of her wealth. She donated prize money, she sponsored classes, she covered the costs of prizes. she donated enough money to keep entire state youth teams funded for a year. She donated huge amounts of money to the congress and to various hunter under saddle futurities every year just to keep them alive so people would be able to show their young horses. As she donated money, more and more people held their hands out and asked her for more. Don't get me wrong. She still stole money, but nobody sat around and acknowledged just exactly how much she was giving away in the process. Not to mention what she was spending keeping all these horses in training. Hauling for national titles. World show qualifying, both Open, amateur and Select world.
My whole point in this is to bring to light just exactly how financially unstable the horse industry is. If you as an owner, exhibitor, trainer, have an extra penny. It is unspoken that you're expected to spend it on the industry. The owners of the shows have to make run them as a business, most anyway, but the AQHA doesn't have a clue how to make a balance sheet work. The AQHA will most likely find a way to make all this work and keep themselves afloat, but they are starting to look a lot like they are going to end up like the Arab Association has.
Over the last 5 years the AQHA has lost approximately 16 million dollars in revenue. I predicted that the average individual who didn't know Rita Crundwell had no idea how her arrest and prosecution was going to affect the horse industry. While I don't in any way mean to say that she is the reason for the loss, however the circumstances of her arrest and lifestyle and influence in the AQHA is a prime example of what is wrong with the system.
You see I have actually know Rita for a long time. I was originally introduced to her by a good friend and Customer Jane Turner. The first year that I hauled Jane to the congress she and Rita shared a motel room. This was before Rita and Jim were so involved and they were cutting expenses and they didn't get a rental car so they drove my truck while we were there and shared a room. I remember Jane questioning Rita at the time about her relationship and where the money was coming from but I don't remember what the outcome of the conversation was. It was in the early stages of Rita showing and she was just starting to spend the big bucks. She was just starting to sponsor events and buy some real quality stock.
Most people don't have any idea how much it costs to haul world class quarter horses down the road. Let alone have them in training. The maintenance and the upkeep. Paying the trainer, the entries etc. Not to mention the AQHA and its local, state affiliated could not exist one second longer if it was not for it's vast amount of benefactors. It's very much like the alumni association silently funding a college powerhouse football program. Nobody actually knows how much is "donated" but they all enjoy the benefits from it. The horse industry is one of the finest examples of the haves and have nots that you will ever see. One thing that nobody sees or understands is how much the Haves are squeezed to help keep the industry up and running. For every dollar that Rita Spent. I guarantee she donated the equal amount. Every local association where she had an outside horse in training and that number was right about 1000, was the benefactor of her wealth. She donated prize money, she sponsored classes, she covered the costs of prizes. she donated enough money to keep entire state youth teams funded for a year. She donated huge amounts of money to the congress and to various hunter under saddle futurities every year just to keep them alive so people would be able to show their young horses. As she donated money, more and more people held their hands out and asked her for more. Don't get me wrong. She still stole money, but nobody sat around and acknowledged just exactly how much she was giving away in the process. Not to mention what she was spending keeping all these horses in training. Hauling for national titles. World show qualifying, both Open, amateur and Select world.
My whole point in this is to bring to light just exactly how financially unstable the horse industry is. If you as an owner, exhibitor, trainer, have an extra penny. It is unspoken that you're expected to spend it on the industry. The owners of the shows have to make run them as a business, most anyway, but the AQHA doesn't have a clue how to make a balance sheet work. The AQHA will most likely find a way to make all this work and keep themselves afloat, but they are starting to look a lot like they are going to end up like the Arab Association has.
Monday, January 12, 2015
The immigration debate. When is it good for America, and the immigrants?
This is a hotly debated topic and Ive given a great deal of thought if I should voice my opinion on it. First I should say I have some experience with immigration, and various immigrants on several levels. As a horse trainer I have employed illegal aliens on more than one occasion. First let me say I paid them $10.00 per hour. That is what the work at their skill level deserves. I have also employed legal immigrants and various other legal citizens to do that job. I want this point to be perfectly clear. The quality of work, that you get from an illegal immigrant IS FAR SUPERIOR than what you get from a legal one. I believe this is because basically here in the United States we allow two basic social and economic classes to immigrate to this country.
The average illegal immigrant coming from Mexico or South America has little education if any. They are used to a lower quality of life so much so that by the time they get here. They are willing to do anything for work. They also have learned to live and accepted the fact that they can live at the poverty level here, Which still far exceeds what they are used to in their own country. They send the vast majority of their money home to their families. When you include just how far the American dollar is spread around the world, the economies that we keep afloat are more that just our own. These immigrants never intend to become legal. Their entire life has been one struggle or another, they are so poorly educated that they literally live from day to day. They are so used to that existence that they continue to live that way here. When they do marry and have kids, usually the wife works as well, they are awesome at pooling their resources and some of them raise their kids to join the work force illegally asap. Some of them actually care about getting their kids educated and want them to have a better life. This group is by far in the minority. I have seen first hand the housing that is available and provided for this type of illegal alien worker. It is barely better what the slave owner supplied to the slaves. In my opinion that is not they type of immigration that should be promoting in this country.
On the other hand you have people from Canada, Europe, South Africa, and the Middle East that are educated or come here for their education and are forced to go home when their visas are expired. These are the individuals the buy businesses, or start up small businesses or by motels or car dealerships or corner stores and provide employment and pay taxes and educate their children and have immigrated legally and the very idea that allowing people from other places to short cut the system totally undercuts the hard work they did to get here.
Our immigration system is broke. Period. Granting immunity is not the answer. The same old rules we have are not the answer. Hiring an immigration attorney for $10k is far from the answer. A border that we can walk across is not the answer. I understand first hand that most of the jobs that illegal immigrants do, legal American citizens don't want to do. But allowing them to live in hovels without proper health care is not the answer either. Neither is sending home the educated, tax paying money earning immigrants because their time has run out and they have to go back home for 5 years before they can re apply.
Don't you think its time that our elected official started doing the jobs they were elected to do???
The average illegal immigrant coming from Mexico or South America has little education if any. They are used to a lower quality of life so much so that by the time they get here. They are willing to do anything for work. They also have learned to live and accepted the fact that they can live at the poverty level here, Which still far exceeds what they are used to in their own country. They send the vast majority of their money home to their families. When you include just how far the American dollar is spread around the world, the economies that we keep afloat are more that just our own. These immigrants never intend to become legal. Their entire life has been one struggle or another, they are so poorly educated that they literally live from day to day. They are so used to that existence that they continue to live that way here. When they do marry and have kids, usually the wife works as well, they are awesome at pooling their resources and some of them raise their kids to join the work force illegally asap. Some of them actually care about getting their kids educated and want them to have a better life. This group is by far in the minority. I have seen first hand the housing that is available and provided for this type of illegal alien worker. It is barely better what the slave owner supplied to the slaves. In my opinion that is not they type of immigration that should be promoting in this country.
On the other hand you have people from Canada, Europe, South Africa, and the Middle East that are educated or come here for their education and are forced to go home when their visas are expired. These are the individuals the buy businesses, or start up small businesses or by motels or car dealerships or corner stores and provide employment and pay taxes and educate their children and have immigrated legally and the very idea that allowing people from other places to short cut the system totally undercuts the hard work they did to get here.
Our immigration system is broke. Period. Granting immunity is not the answer. The same old rules we have are not the answer. Hiring an immigration attorney for $10k is far from the answer. A border that we can walk across is not the answer. I understand first hand that most of the jobs that illegal immigrants do, legal American citizens don't want to do. But allowing them to live in hovels without proper health care is not the answer either. Neither is sending home the educated, tax paying money earning immigrants because their time has run out and they have to go back home for 5 years before they can re apply.
Don't you think its time that our elected official started doing the jobs they were elected to do???
Thursday, January 8, 2015
Travels with the boys.
Some of you may already know that we took a short trip over the new years holiday. I was really excited about this trip because Dave and I were going together. We haven't done a driving trip together, usually we fly, which as you know I hate, or we travel separate. When I was a kid we took family vacations whenever we could get away. Awesome vacations. Always as a family, sometimes camping, sometimes with the boat, or the snowmobiles, sometimes to visit relatives, or all the way across Nebraska, Colorado, Wyoming, and parts of Utah to go to the Flaming River Gorges Reservoir. I don't know how everyone else in the family remembers them. But when I look back on them now I have the best memories. Kind of like awesome black and white snapshots. I plan on retracing some of those places in the years to come and I can't wait.
We stayed at an older private club mainly because they allowed us to stay there with the boys. The best part. The pool, the Jacuzzi, the room, shower, may have been older, but it was spotless. The towels were over-sized, fluffy, and the bed was king sized so we could all sleep together with plenty of room. The owner was friendly and polite. We found the service at Matchbox, where we had dinner and hoer De overs twice, was fantastic. The bartenders at the clubs looked like they had recently showered and also were great at service. We drove up to Big Bear Lake on New Years Day and stopped at The Lumberjack Cafe for lunch, It was an awesome little place, old, quiet, family owned with good hot food and great service. We met a favorite horse training buddy of mine at a place in Indio called La Pinata Club. They were packed!!!!! and I mean packed it was Friday night, the bar and the restaurant was full. They only had one waitress in the restaurant side and she was AWESOME. I wanted to drive to the Salton Sea and take some photo's so we took the long way home. Even the overworked frumpy woman/man who waited on us at the Chili's gave us better service than we ever get in Phoenix.
Finally Ive gotten to the point of my latest blog. Service in Phoenix sucks. Pretty much valley wide. I noticed the same thing on my cross country trek this summer. Every little diner or restaurant that I went to had better service than what we Phoenicians are used to. I've complained about service here before and been greatly chastised by my friends, but this time they can kiss my ass. I understand, believe me I hear about it daily, how hard a waiter has to work. I do agree that the restaurant industry has found a way to manipulate the system so they can pay as little as possible, supply little or no benefits, force employees to work split shifts yet still work as few hours as to stay part time.
Today the web featured an article about a restaurant who switched all its employees to a salary, gave them benefits, and requests that the patrons don't pay tips. This could be a great thing for the employees. But what about us patrons. I'm sorry, call me old fashioned, call me a communist or anything else that you like, but I like to be able to pay the server more based on the kind of service I get. I like to give big tips. It always makes me feel good to leave a big tip when the service has been equally as good. Likewise if they suck, and some of them do, I also like the ability to leave a tip that sucks.
You see. I have worked as a waiter. I actually liked it. I made great tips, but the hours sucked.. I also have several friends who work as waiters, bartenders, etc. They hardly ever complain about the money they make. Mainly because I try not to hang around with any schmucks and I am sure that every one of them is good at their jobs. I also hear the same thing from all of them. They work with a few people who aren't worth a shit. They always want to switch their shifts. There kids are sick, or they need the time off because their spouse has plans. With those people their job is secondary and you an usually tell by the service you get. Just last week I was picking up some food at the local Chili's and the bartender coming in for the next shift was showing up to work with a filthy dirty work shirt with what looked like refried beans all over the front. It obviously had not been washed. Had I been a manager I would have sent that person home.
Part of the problem is the art of cooking has gotten so popular that cooking schools have popped up all over and there is a glut of "qualified cooks" available to work in restaurants. Unfortunately too many cooks spoil the soup so they fall back to being waiters etc. Rarely do they make good ones.
I guess my whole point of this article is it will be interesting to see how the salaried workers make out. If the service is good. If the restaurant can make it a viable business plan. Just another example of an industry in the U.S. that needs to be overhauled.
We stayed at an older private club mainly because they allowed us to stay there with the boys. The best part. The pool, the Jacuzzi, the room, shower, may have been older, but it was spotless. The towels were over-sized, fluffy, and the bed was king sized so we could all sleep together with plenty of room. The owner was friendly and polite. We found the service at Matchbox, where we had dinner and hoer De overs twice, was fantastic. The bartenders at the clubs looked like they had recently showered and also were great at service. We drove up to Big Bear Lake on New Years Day and stopped at The Lumberjack Cafe for lunch, It was an awesome little place, old, quiet, family owned with good hot food and great service. We met a favorite horse training buddy of mine at a place in Indio called La Pinata Club. They were packed!!!!! and I mean packed it was Friday night, the bar and the restaurant was full. They only had one waitress in the restaurant side and she was AWESOME. I wanted to drive to the Salton Sea and take some photo's so we took the long way home. Even the overworked frumpy woman/man who waited on us at the Chili's gave us better service than we ever get in Phoenix.
Finally Ive gotten to the point of my latest blog. Service in Phoenix sucks. Pretty much valley wide. I noticed the same thing on my cross country trek this summer. Every little diner or restaurant that I went to had better service than what we Phoenicians are used to. I've complained about service here before and been greatly chastised by my friends, but this time they can kiss my ass. I understand, believe me I hear about it daily, how hard a waiter has to work. I do agree that the restaurant industry has found a way to manipulate the system so they can pay as little as possible, supply little or no benefits, force employees to work split shifts yet still work as few hours as to stay part time.
Today the web featured an article about a restaurant who switched all its employees to a salary, gave them benefits, and requests that the patrons don't pay tips. This could be a great thing for the employees. But what about us patrons. I'm sorry, call me old fashioned, call me a communist or anything else that you like, but I like to be able to pay the server more based on the kind of service I get. I like to give big tips. It always makes me feel good to leave a big tip when the service has been equally as good. Likewise if they suck, and some of them do, I also like the ability to leave a tip that sucks.
You see. I have worked as a waiter. I actually liked it. I made great tips, but the hours sucked.. I also have several friends who work as waiters, bartenders, etc. They hardly ever complain about the money they make. Mainly because I try not to hang around with any schmucks and I am sure that every one of them is good at their jobs. I also hear the same thing from all of them. They work with a few people who aren't worth a shit. They always want to switch their shifts. There kids are sick, or they need the time off because their spouse has plans. With those people their job is secondary and you an usually tell by the service you get. Just last week I was picking up some food at the local Chili's and the bartender coming in for the next shift was showing up to work with a filthy dirty work shirt with what looked like refried beans all over the front. It obviously had not been washed. Had I been a manager I would have sent that person home.
Part of the problem is the art of cooking has gotten so popular that cooking schools have popped up all over and there is a glut of "qualified cooks" available to work in restaurants. Unfortunately too many cooks spoil the soup so they fall back to being waiters etc. Rarely do they make good ones.
I guess my whole point of this article is it will be interesting to see how the salaried workers make out. If the service is good. If the restaurant can make it a viable business plan. Just another example of an industry in the U.S. that needs to be overhauled.
Friday, January 2, 2015
The generations that we are raising right now.
I see many posts on Facebook about children who are out of control. I hear people talk about it when I am at Starbucks, and this holiday season when I have been out and about in town and I noticed out of control children everywhere that I have gone.
Sunday I decided to take the dogs for a ride and I wanted to practice taking still life photo's so I loaded the boys into the Exploder and we drove down to Coolidge Arizona to the Casa Grande Ruins National Monument. It was a nice quiet drive stopping to take photo's of an old Catholic church and various cool cactus's along the way. When I got to the monument I was pleasantly surprised there is a really nice welcome/museum ranger station and the park is really simple and clean. What amazed me the most when taking the self guided tour was two kids that were screaming and playing wildly while everybody else was quiet. At one point one of the rangers politely asked the parents to please keep the kids quiet out of respect for the rest of the patrons. Unfortunately this had zero effect as the parents nodded their heads like stoned zombies and proceeded to continue to let the little bastards scream and holler and play tag etc, in what is really a nice quiet place. Finally a different park ranger asked them to please leave the exhibit and take the children outside to keep from disrupting the experience for the rest of us. He was exceedingly polite, and did his best not to insult the parents but the wife would have none of it and declared she had never been so insulted. she was just trying to show her children some Arizona history. That was the joke of the day because neither parent was interacting at all with the kids. They were looking at various exhibits, the grandmother had given up and was sitting on a bench outside and the grandfather had walked out to the ruins to take photo's.
The park ranger made them go out the front of the building and gave them a refund because she was not going to let them go through to the ruins. I thought that was awesome. Unfortunately about 20 minutes the silence of the park was shattered by the sound of a car alarm going off. You guessed it, the car belonged to the loud people and somehow the rotten shits had managed to set off the alarm. The parents were off wandering in the desert and a park ranger had to track them down and ask them to come and turn the alarm off. I have to say I was shocked. I haven't seen parents that out of touch in a long time. It was like they were purposefully ignoring their children and had no respect for others. I was leaving as they were trying to get the rotten shits loaded up and when I passed behind the car I asked the dad if he would like to give me $5.00 because his kids had basically ruined my trip. He told me to" go to hell." I replied that it" would be infinitely better than spending 20 minutes with his fucking kids". He was not impressed.
Who is taking responsibility for raising kids these days. When you go to a restaurant and look around at a table after a family leaves and it looks like a buffet at an elephant bar. Food is all over the floor the table looks like somebody threw up on it and the dishes are all in disarray. They run wild at grocery stores. I was at Fry's the other day and one mother was encouraging her infant to make that wild high pitched squeal sound that some kids can make. I wanted to take ice pic's to my ears.
One time at a horse show in Carthage Missouri I had a customer that actually turned a water hose on a kid and told her to go away. I remember watching it happen today as clear as if it was yesterday. The little girl was wandering around the barn alley without supervision as Janet was grooming her horses. Both of her show horses at the time were Studs and she expected them to behave perfectly. Janet believed rightfully so that if the boys got out of line she would whip their ass. One of them was a little squealy that afternoon and when she whipped his ass for it he set back against his lead rope and bumped into the little girl knocking her down. She was unhurt but surprised so she cried a bit and wandered off only to return a few minutes later. Now Janet was filling her water buckets and the little girl was standing under one of the studs necks between his and the stall. Janet said where are your parents, and the little girl made some motion and continued to hang around. At this point Janet just turned the water hose on her and said its time for you to go home and not come back. I was horrified at the time. Now I think she was perfectly within her rights.
Sunday I decided to take the dogs for a ride and I wanted to practice taking still life photo's so I loaded the boys into the Exploder and we drove down to Coolidge Arizona to the Casa Grande Ruins National Monument. It was a nice quiet drive stopping to take photo's of an old Catholic church and various cool cactus's along the way. When I got to the monument I was pleasantly surprised there is a really nice welcome/museum ranger station and the park is really simple and clean. What amazed me the most when taking the self guided tour was two kids that were screaming and playing wildly while everybody else was quiet. At one point one of the rangers politely asked the parents to please keep the kids quiet out of respect for the rest of the patrons. Unfortunately this had zero effect as the parents nodded their heads like stoned zombies and proceeded to continue to let the little bastards scream and holler and play tag etc, in what is really a nice quiet place. Finally a different park ranger asked them to please leave the exhibit and take the children outside to keep from disrupting the experience for the rest of us. He was exceedingly polite, and did his best not to insult the parents but the wife would have none of it and declared she had never been so insulted. she was just trying to show her children some Arizona history. That was the joke of the day because neither parent was interacting at all with the kids. They were looking at various exhibits, the grandmother had given up and was sitting on a bench outside and the grandfather had walked out to the ruins to take photo's.
The park ranger made them go out the front of the building and gave them a refund because she was not going to let them go through to the ruins. I thought that was awesome. Unfortunately about 20 minutes the silence of the park was shattered by the sound of a car alarm going off. You guessed it, the car belonged to the loud people and somehow the rotten shits had managed to set off the alarm. The parents were off wandering in the desert and a park ranger had to track them down and ask them to come and turn the alarm off. I have to say I was shocked. I haven't seen parents that out of touch in a long time. It was like they were purposefully ignoring their children and had no respect for others. I was leaving as they were trying to get the rotten shits loaded up and when I passed behind the car I asked the dad if he would like to give me $5.00 because his kids had basically ruined my trip. He told me to" go to hell." I replied that it" would be infinitely better than spending 20 minutes with his fucking kids". He was not impressed.
Who is taking responsibility for raising kids these days. When you go to a restaurant and look around at a table after a family leaves and it looks like a buffet at an elephant bar. Food is all over the floor the table looks like somebody threw up on it and the dishes are all in disarray. They run wild at grocery stores. I was at Fry's the other day and one mother was encouraging her infant to make that wild high pitched squeal sound that some kids can make. I wanted to take ice pic's to my ears.
One time at a horse show in Carthage Missouri I had a customer that actually turned a water hose on a kid and told her to go away. I remember watching it happen today as clear as if it was yesterday. The little girl was wandering around the barn alley without supervision as Janet was grooming her horses. Both of her show horses at the time were Studs and she expected them to behave perfectly. Janet believed rightfully so that if the boys got out of line she would whip their ass. One of them was a little squealy that afternoon and when she whipped his ass for it he set back against his lead rope and bumped into the little girl knocking her down. She was unhurt but surprised so she cried a bit and wandered off only to return a few minutes later. Now Janet was filling her water buckets and the little girl was standing under one of the studs necks between his and the stall. Janet said where are your parents, and the little girl made some motion and continued to hang around. At this point Janet just turned the water hose on her and said its time for you to go home and not come back. I was horrified at the time. Now I think she was perfectly within her rights.
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